I didn't read him as right-leaning; more like a translator of right-think for those of us on the left of center.
The point he made that was useful to me was that conservatives often have the "strict father" model of family, which is incompatible with anything other than a heterosexual marriage. I'd been assuming the "nuturing parent" model which is more easily adapted to any combination of genders. not to mention any number of parents.
I also tend to think of marriage as an entirely separate issue from being a parent, but many conservatives don't, and it was useful to me to be reminded of that. In my view, the gender of the parents (and their marital status) is mostly irrelevant, but for folks who have a "strict father" view of family, marriage and parenting and gender are strictly defined in relation to each other.
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Date: 2004-02-23 07:52 pm (UTC)The point he made that was useful to me was that conservatives often have the "strict father" model of family, which is incompatible with anything other than a heterosexual marriage. I'd been assuming the "nuturing parent" model which is more easily adapted to any combination of genders. not to mention any number of parents.
I also tend to think of marriage as an entirely separate issue from being a parent, but many conservatives don't, and it was useful to me to be reminded of that. In my view, the gender of the parents (and their marital status) is mostly irrelevant, but for folks who have a "strict father" view of family, marriage and parenting and gender are strictly defined in relation to each other.