I'm assuming you shop in the petites? Because once I started doing that, things did change for me (somewhat).

Have you tried your local department stores? Otherwise, I have liked Talbot's. I guess it kinda depends on what kind of clothes you are looking for. Half of what I wear I got at REI :P.

Sorry, I have no real helpful information. I think shopping for clothes is painful for most women. I hate shopping, too. :(